Why I Changed My Business Name: A Journey in Wellness

Around the middle of last year, I decided to change the name of my business. JTM Yoga LLC didn’t fit me or my business anymore. I love yoga but was burnt out and had been for a while. I was not enjoying teaching yoga and was going through the motions. I had already became a certified life coach but had not done anything with it. I decided to expand what I offer and changed my business name to JTM Life & Wellness, LLC.

I admit I panicked when I actually went to the lawyer for the name change. I was excited but questioning my decision. My confidence in myself had taken a hit over the last few years. After my son was born I was not focused on teaching yoga like I had been. That was fine for a while but as he got older and started school I was alone at home. I wanted to get back to teaching yoga but during my time away I had gained some weight. It was not a lot of weight but I was the heaviest I had ever been. I was embarrassed because I felt to teach yoga I should be thinner like I had been in the past. This wasn’t even baby weight. I didn’t gain a lot during pregnancy. The first and third trimesters were rough. What happened were a series of health issues. Even as an adult that knew better I still felt embarrassed about how I looked. This caused anxiety and lots of self doubt. I agonized over any pictures posted to my business social media. I easily talked myself out of creating videos for my YouTube channel.

Fast forward a little while and I finally started to face my fears. I started to record videos and some social media posts. I still doubted myself at times but I did not let that stop me. I still have not gotten back to the weight I feel comfortable with. But I am on my way and I feel more comfortable in my body than I ever have. Yoga has become enjoyable again and I am excited about adding life coaching and Pilates to my offerings. I still feel anxious at times worried about did I do the right thing. Since I have made the decision to change my business name and expand my offerings, things have felt right. There is a clearer and exciting new path.

“Never let the fear of striking out get in your way.” – Babe Ruth

Tree Pose

Tree pose or Vrksasana may look like a simple balance pose but looks can be deceiving. While Tree pose may be a challenge it is also calming. Once you find your balance and your attention is focused on a non moving object, a peaceful feeling happens. 


Start in Mountain pose and as with all balance poses start to notice how you are standing on  your feet. Be sure to stand evenly on your foot. Check the four corners of the foot (see the blog about Eagle pose on where the corners are located). If you are having a difficult time getting to the four corners of the feet slowly lift the toes upwards . This will put you onto the four corners.  When you are ready make sure the toes are one the mat and not scrunched up. Start to feel rooted into the floor with the right foot. Slowly start to lift the left foot off the ground and start to turn the left leg out to the side. The hips are open in this pose. Where you bring the sole of the foot  depends on your balance. You can place the foot on the ankle, shin, or thigh. Try not to place the foot against the side of the knee. You don’t want to press on that area. The higher the foot  placement the more difficult balance will be. If you are able to place the foot against the inner thigh you will need to help place it there with your hand. 

Now for the arm positions. This happens after your foot is where you want it. There are a few different placements people use. To start off with, until you feel more balanced, place the hands on the hips. If you are feeling steady, try bringing the palms together at heart center. To bring a little more challenge raise the arms up overhead.  For those with shoulder injuries bringing the arms overhead may not be the best placement and irritate the injury. If this is the case bring the hands to heart center or to the hips.  Remember to keep the back straight . Start off by trying to hold for 30 seconds. Repeat on the other side.

Tree pose helps to strengthen the legs, while stretching the groin area, inner thighs, chest and shoulders. Helps with balance and is said to help some with sciatica. All balance poses help to strengthen the feet. 

Triangle Pose

Triangle pose or Trikonasana is one of my favorites. It is such a great full body stretch and many students have told me it has helped them with backaches that were bothering them. One person even told me they finally got their back to crack while in Triangle. I don’t recommend that be the goal of Triangle but this person was very happy about that surprising benefit. In the book, Yoga for Osteoporosis, Loren Fishman M.D. and Ellen Saltonstall included Triangle pose in the chapter focusing on bone strength. 


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Start by stepping with your feet about a leg length apart. You can always adjust more or less to fit you. Turn your right foot so the toes are pointed towards the short edge of the mat. The left foot will stay pointed towards the long edge of the mat. The heel of the right foot should be in line with the arch of the left foot.  Keep your hips open (pointing towards the long edge of the mat) bring the arms out to the side.

Turn your head to look over the right shoulder and then shift your hips to the left. Your right arm will be pushing forward as if you were reaching out for something. As your hips shift to the left you will start to bring your right arm down and bring your hand to either the thigh, shin, ankle or floor. The left arm will be reaching towards the ceiling. Feel the arms reaching for the ceiling and the floor. Look down at the floor. ONLY if your neck is not tight and you have no neck injuries slowly turn your head to look up. You may also look straight ahead of you. Keep the chest open if you find you are folding at the waist try to roll the rib cage back. If you are still folding at the waist do not go so deep into the side bend, come up a little bit. Hold this position for 30 seconds to a minute. To come up look down and come up to standing. Repeat on the other side. 

You may place a block by your foot to rest the hand on also. If balance is a problem you can  use a wall for support. Triangle is great for the legs, stretching the thighs, knees, calves, hamstrings, and ankles. It also strengthens the thighs, knees and ankles. You will also feel a good stretch along the side of your body.

Be cautious if you have any neck injuries, headache or high blood pressure.

 

Eagle Pose

Eagle pose or Garudasana is a yoga balance pose with a little twisting. As with all balance poses it helps improve balance and concentration.  Eagle pose strengthens the ankles and calves while stretching the thighs,hips shoulders and upper back. 


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Start in Mountain pose, you can close your eyes to center if you like. Sometimes for balance poses it helps to pay attention to how your foot is touching the floor. Try to make sure the foot you are going to be standing on is fully touching the floor. By this I mean you are not mostly standing on the ball of your foot or the heel. Try to distribute the weight evenly using the four corners of your foot as a guide. This is the section of the ball of the foot under the big toe, and section under the little toe and the sides of the heel. Once you are ready open your eyes bend your knees slightly and bring your arms out to the side. 

It doesn’t matter which side you start on. In my personal practice my habit is to start with the right side. Bring your left leg out to the side, pointing the toes while still touching the floor. Now, bring your arms towards each other with the left arm sliding under the right arm and your elbows stacked on top of each other. Your arms are still straight at this point. Once the elbows are together bend your arms and bring them towards you.  Wrap the forearms around each other and then the hands. This provides a nice shoulder stretch. If this is difficult or you have shoulder injuries bring the hands together in prayer position at heart center. 

Next start to wrap the left leg around the right leg. If you are feeling balanced try to hook the foot around the leg also. Try to hold for 30 seconds. For help with balance you can use a wall to steady your self. If you do this remember to only lightly lean on the wall. Also when the free leg is winding around the standing leg bring the foot to the floor to help with balance. Remember to keep the back straight in this pose.

To come out unwind the arms then the legs. Repeat on the other side.

If you want bring a little bit more of a challenge go deeper into the knee bend and lean forward from the hips. 


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Remember, each side will feel different. You will notice one side is easier than the other. Take it step by step and don’t rush. DON’T forget to breath!! Holding your breath does not help you balance any easier.The only thing it might help you accomplish is falling over. Our balance is something we tend to take for granted until something happens. Yoga balance poses help us to take time, focus, and balance.

 

 

 

 

 

Yoga Props : The Strap

Yoga props are a great way to modify a pose for your body. Everyone’s situation is different whether from injury ,stiffness or just the way your body is made.  There is NOTHING wrong with using a prop. 

 Yoga straps are a great way to extend your reach when needed. If you are feeling tight in seated forward folds place the strap around your feet and hold each end of the strap. Or lie on your back and place the strap around one of your feet and extend the leg. Straps can also be used in balance poses where you are trying to reach the foot. 


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If you do not want to purchase a yoga strap a towel can be used instead. Some people have gone to fabric stores and bought fabric and made a yoga strap. 


There are many ways to use a yoga strap when practicing.  Get creative with it. There are poses you may not think of right away to use a yoga strap with, pigeon is one, and dancers is another. If you are in a group class the teacher may not always say when to use a prop. It varies with the individual. If you feels like it could help you, then use it.

Three Things You DON’T Have to Be to Practice Yoga

With the new year getting ready to begin people start to make resolutions.  A lot of resolutions are to be healthier. Yoga is a great way to become healthier unfortunately people sometimes  have the misconception of what you have to be to practice yoga. Here  are three that I have personally come across when people find out I teach yoga.

1) FLEXIBLE :  I hear all the time from people ” Oh I am not flexible enough to do yoga.”  Most of the people we see in those  yoga pictures did not start off that way. Yes there are some lucky ones who are naturally that flexible but most of us are not. With a consistent yoga practice your body will loosen up and become more flexible. I don’t know if you will  become a contortionist but you will become more flexible. 

2) A GYMNAST: Handstands are not required.  Arm balances of any kind are not a requirement. We have all seen the very impressive pictures of yogis standing on their heads or some type of handstand with the body in some twisty position. I like to think of yoga as an individual journey. Any teacher should understand and help the student on their journey. Yoga has many parts to it and some people do not practice the poses for them yoga is more of a mental practice.  If you do practice the poses start on the mat with no expectations. Just breathe and see where it takes you.

3) BE A CERTAIN WAY: Special diets or thinking a certain way. There are misconceptions about both of these things in yoga. Just be you and do what is best for you. Yoga is not about fitting into a certain group. You can be Buddhist, Christian, atheist or whatever and practice yoga. Everyone deserves to feel peace and calm. Yes sometimes people make changes in their lives after they have started yoga. Changes should be made because you feel it is right for you not because you  think you have too.

T.K.V. Desikachar said it best in his book The Heart of Yoga “We begin where we are and how we are, and whatever happens, happens.”  Have a happy New Year everyone!